I'm an interviewer at my company and burnt out
February 03, 2021βI don't feel like I am heard or taken seriously. How can I push for change and preserve my energy?β
How do you address issues with a coworker?
July 27, 2020βThis seems to be a pattern where we prepare really well, but then she interjects her thoughts in the midst of a rigidly planned spiel, and it makes us look a little unorganized.β
How do you connect meaningfully with new people?
April 18, 2020βI've had some success just meeting people from more varied backgrounds, but have struggled to translate those to more authentic, closer friendships.β
Should I stop speaking at conferences?
January 26, 2020βI want to focus my time on other activities, but I'm a bit afraid of losing a bit of my identity.β
What is your best advice for new developers?
November 16, 2019βI am really interested in other perspectives.β
My manager changed his tune. Now what?
August 28, 2019βMy productivity got me recruited and hired in the first place, and now it's not good enough.β
How do you coach and mentor women engineers?
July 23, 2019βI am a white, cis, male engineer, and a relatively new team lead.β
What do you ask a potential manager about a new role?
June 28, 2019βI've been dealing with a not great manager relationship. I think it is time for me to go.β
π How do you find a religious space in the tech world?
May 05, 2019βI am not looking to preach to anyone. But I find myself being ashamed of this when I'm around people in the tech industry.β
How do you make friends when you move somewhere new?
April 24, 2019βCan coworkers be your friends? How do you find friends outside of work?β
Is wanting a truly kind, inclusive place to work too much to ask for in tech?
April 13, 2019βSubtitle: Am I reacting appropriately to these events or am I being too sensitive?β
I'm annoyed with my travel companion. What now?
April 09, 2019βIt gets worse and worse. I really don't want to talk to her at all now.β
πͺ How do you empower yourself?
April 08, 2019βI'd love to know what you do to empower yourself against fear and against the voices in your head that try to dissuade you.β
How do you start an advice column?
April 07, 2019I definitely did not write this.